A-----Accept(接受)
“世上没有十全十美的人”。记着,你爱他,就必须接受他的一切,甚至他的缺点。”There are no perfect people.” Remember, you love him ,you must accept his all , even his shortcomings.
B——belief(信任)
不信任对方,经常以怀疑的口吻盘问对方,这种互相猜度的爱情就只有分手下场。
If you do not trust each other and cross-examine each other with skeptical tone , this kind of mutual skeptical love is lead to break up .
C——care(关心)
关心的程度正好表现你对她的重视程度,间或打个电话给她关心地问候一句:“工作辛苦吗?”又或者发短信给她:“天气凉了,别忘了加衣”。这些关心未必有实际用途,但起码能令对方暖在心头。如果还有情书,当然更OK:)。
The degree of care has just displays your degree of attention paid to her, or make a phone call to her and greet one sentence with care: "Working hard?” Or sent a text message to her: "It is cool outside, don
't forget to add clothes". These may not be useful actually, but at least they can make the one warm in heart. If there is a love letter, of course, much better.
D——digest(理解)
我们不是圣人,总有情绪起伏的时候,若对方是“凸”的时候,你何不做“凹”去忍耐一下她,安慰一下她呢。
There is always a time of emotional up and down because we are not saints. If the other person is "convex", why don't you make "concave" to have patience her, comfort her?
E——enjoy(欣赏)
你应欣赏对方的一切,欣赏这段爱情带给你的开心、幸福。这样,你便会爱得更愉快,不要只懂埋怨,在鸡蛋里挑骨头。
Y ou should enjoy each other which has brought you happy and happiness. Only in this way will you love happier in case that do not complain and nitpick.
F——freedom(自由)
纵然已婚,也应给予对方应有自由及保持秘密的权利。你的另一半不是你的终生奴隶,不要让她认为跟你结婚就等于被困笼中。
Even if married , you should offer the one the right of having freedom and keep secret, The other half of your life is not your slave, and don't let her think that marry with you is just like being trapped in cages.
G——give(付出)
爱情这样东西不一定是你付出“一”,便会收回“一”。
但不付出,便一定没有收获。对你的爱人,应有如对自己一样,毫无保留地付出,这才算得上真爱。
Love is not necessarily something that you pay, there will be harvest.
But without pay, there will be no gain undoubtedly. Lover in you, should as the same to oneself, is paid without reserve, this is just regarded as the true love.
H——heart(心)
爱情最重要的道具是心,你必须真心对待,用心去爱。没有心,又怎称得上真心相爱。The most important props of the love is the heart, you must treat wholeheartedly, attentively. Without heart, how to deserve to be called truly in love.
I——independence(独立)
甜言蜜语的人会说:“我是为了你而生。”其实,每个人都有自己的生存意义,不应过分依赖对方,成为对方的沉重负担,甚至累赘
Sweet words people will say: "I was born for you." In fact, everyone has their own survival significance, should not place undue reliance on each other, become each other's heavy burden, even cumbersome.
J——jealousy(妒忌)
适当的妒忌、呷醋能表示你对对方的重视,但切记是合情合理的呷醋;反之,毫不讲理,大发雷霆地呷醋,必惹反感。
The proper jealousy can show your attention to the other side, but remember that it should be reasonable jealousy; On the other hand, not reasonable, furious unnecessary jealousy will provoke ant
ipathy.
K——kiss(吻)
一吻胜过千言万语,轻轻的一吻已能代表你惜她、爱护她,所以请不要吝啬你的红唇。
A kiss surpasses thousands and thousands of words, a gentle kiss can already cherish her on behalf
of you love her, so please don't stingy your red lip.
L——love(爱)
都说是爱情,没有爱又怎会有情呢?爱跟喜欢不同,爱一个人,你必定愿意为他做任何事,这是最高的境界。亲时不妨跟对方说句“我爱你”,担保比任何礼物来得甜蜜开心。
All say love, no love and how can love? The love, with like being different, love a person, you must like to do anything for him, this is a supreme realm. Kiss with each other may wish to say "I love you", guarantees than any gifts brings more sweet and happy.
M——mature(成熟)
为什么一般人的初恋总会无声无地惨败,因为年轻人多恋爱得较幼稚。况且,没有一个人会喜欢对方长年没头没脑地蹦蹦跳跳。人成熟一点,你的爱情便会早熟一点,直到开花结果。
Why first love of most people always silent to defeat colourless, because young people are childish when they are in love. Moreover, nobody will like a person who scampers about without rhymes or reason. When you become mature, your love will be a bit precocious until fruition.
N——nutural(自然)
很多人初拍拖时都会把一切的缺点隐藏起来,变成另一个人。日子久了,缺点才一箩箩地出现,令对方吃不消。其实,不做作,流于自然的爱情才是细水长流的。
A lot of people will hide all shortcomings at the beginning of their date and become another person. Disadvantages appear slowly as time go by which make the other side unable to stand. In fact, not artificial, become the natural love to do little by little .
O——observe(观察)
经常细心观察爱侣的喜好,不但能更了解对方,更能给他惊喜。那份心意必定比礼物来得珍贵。
Often observe lover's preferences carefully, not only can know more about each other, but also can give him surprises even more which comes preciously more than the present.
P——protect(保护)
做男朋友的当然要保护女朋友,但做女朋友的亦要保护对方的尊严,不应容许别人中伤、侮辱你的另一半。
Certainly the boyfriend has to protect his girlfriend, but a girlfriend has to protect the other half's dignity, should not allow others to slander, insult your other half.
宽大是基本的要诀,对爱侣的错误,以宽大的态度原谅他,因为你是最爱他的人。Quarter is the basic knack, to lovers' mistake, forgive him with the spacious attitude, because you are the person who love him most.
R——receive(接收)
对于爱侣为你所做的,请不要表现得无动于衷,令他气馁。她付出,你便应以欣赏的态度去接受,这才能令感情更进一步。
To what lovers are done by you, please don't behave unmovedly, make him discouraged. She pays, you should accept with the attitude that is appreciated which makes the emotion go much further.
S——share(分享)
若你爱他,就必能与他分享他的喜与哀,这是作为一个伴侣最简单的责任。
If you love him, you will be able to share his happiness and sorrow which is the simplest responsibility as the mate.
T——tender(温柔)
歌都有得唱《Love me tender》啦!爱人当然要温柔地爱,因为男人女人缺乏温柔都不可爱。
Songs have had to sing “Love me tender "!, Loves, of course, love me tender, because men and women lack of tender is not cute.
U——understand(明白)
不明白对方的想法,对方跟你说话,你永远只独自发呆,那就是一段缺乏沟通的爱情。多站在对方立场,将心比心地想,必定能更了解你的另一半。
Do not understand each other's thoughts, the other side talk to you, you are always alone in a daze forever, that is a love which lacks communication. Standing on each other’s position more and think carefully which will be able to learn more about your mate.
V——veracity(诚实)
对爱情,必须一百倍的诚实,你也不想你的另一半是个“大话精”吧!时常互相欺骗的感情又怎能天长地久呢?
Love, must be honesty of one hundred times, you also don't want your other half is a "spin doctor"! Often lie to each other’s felling, how will last forever?
等是维系一段感情的基本元素。最重要的是你要与他同步成长,同步走完这段人生路,千万不可一个走先,遗下另一半在后。
Waiting is the basic elements to sustain a relationship. The most important thing is that you should grow up with him in step, synchronous go through the road of life, never one go first, leaving the other half.
X——“X”(乘法符号)
把你对他的爱每天以倍数地乘上去,爱情自然变成无限大,爱情走也走不掉。
Put your love for him everyday with multiple added up, love nature becomes infinite and also not go away.
Y——yearn(想念)
工作或不在一起时,不妨多想念对方,间或致电或传呼他说句“我很挂念你”必能令对方甜在心头,更起劲地工作。
yearnWhen working or not together, you might as well miss each other, occasionally calling or pagering him as saying "I miss you very much" which will make the one feels sweet in heart and work harder.
Z——zest(热情)
像小龙女般虽然貌若天仙,却冷若冰霜的情人,除了杨过,相信都没有人愿意跟她一生一世。所以,情侣的,适当的热情能加添不少乐趣,但切忌过分热情。
Like little dragon Maiden, although looks fairy, as lover, in addition to Y ang Guo, I believe that no one is willing to accompany her for life. So, the couple’s enthusiasm can add a lot of fun, but avoid overly enthusiastic.